I came across a person who was blamed by his family and relatives that his anger was real bad and he could lose everything in his life because of his anger. The person was a participant in one of the workshop I recently attended. Well, we were partners so he discussed his issues with me. He was brought up in a joint family, his parents loved him like anything but also physically abused him (i.e. thrashing him with belt, stick etc). His family environment changed when he moved from one city to another and at one point of time the family fights had put a very bad impact on him as his paternal uncle and aunts were married and were fighting for ancestral property and money. The family had been separated but they were all living in the same building in their own flats.